Real Modern Man

"We made love in every corner of the house-and beyond, in many other places, but I must say, as the bed there was nothing to me ...." It is one of hundreds of testimonies collected in DÍMELO AL OIDO of Sonsoles Fuentes & Laura Carrion, ED. Temas de hoy. The book reflects experiences and fantasies of sexually active women under strict anonymity, which opened the Pandora’s Box of their most intimate sexual desires, deep and transgressors. While there is a COMMON PATTERN in virtually all these fantasies contained in the book, is the need for women it is the man who will lead and lead the sexual act.

A woman who today, is adopting a passive role in their sexual relationships, or waiting for granted, the man, his sexual mate who has to know or find out what is something that can excite. Fortunately for us, today there are women who, have also chosen to take the active role and are able to verbalize their sexual tastes with her mate. In my opinion, this is an indicator of intelligence, as they have overcome a barrier of communication that so far, prevented them from REACH WHAT THEY WANT, and more like what they do in bed their respective mates.

It is true also that unless we have a high degree of trust with our sexual partner, it is relatively difficult to confess that she was with us, asking us specifically what they want in bed. Recall again the key role of men in the Charm: LIDERAR INTERACTION. It is something that she takes as a measure of value at the time of entrusting their affections, emotions, body and feelings.

How we can then lead a SEXUAL SATISFACTORY MEETING for both, if she has not verbalized, or we were unable to interpret their sexual tastes? The answer is easier than it seems, IN SEX is always better to make mistakes on excess than default. Taking the helm of us meeting, without fear of mistake, we will never halt our own fantasies with her. True, which need not coincide with our own, but more likely to have their wishes overlap with our new offering sap in each sexual meeting.

TRIAL-MISTAKE and so on, is best to leave the framework of their sexual tastes common to stay tight and not get to experience new things for fear of offending her, pretending that she was going to settle "as usual". To SETTLE course it is not for women and should never apply to sex or a relationship.

I have never been so agree with the concept of LOGIC RETROACTIVE, according to which women choose their wishes in terms of their behaviour. As long as our actions and scales sex with her not violate or invade their personal freedom, but they are driven to offer PLEASURE which, in turn, we are also looking for us and ultimately, OPEN HER DOOR TO HERSELF DISCOVERY AND SEXUALLY EXPLORING.

It goes without saying that MONOTONY IS SOMETHING THAT MAKES 100% WOMEN GET BORED, and if that occurs in the relationship, it may lead to the loss of Attraction and make wreck, starting to the bed. Remember that a healthy woman, sexually receptive and with a high self-esteem, is biologically programmed to select a man with a high alpha value sex and survival. We must bear in mind this FEMALE PROMISCUITY, it is something that we must accept and assume as soon as possible because it is something NATURAL. To settle is not in their vocabulary or, in either instinct or in their minds, the economy, etc.

A high value woman has lots of options in terms of variety of sexual partners and lovers and she does NOT SETTLE. Therefore if we already have or factual or maintain a relationship with a high value woman, we may think two things:
1. WE ARE HIGH VALUE MEN.
2. THEREFORE WE HAVE TO ACT ON CONSECUENCE AND NOT RELAX.
The pairing sex, the man tends to relax over time, the opposite her, always seeking NEW EMOTIONS IN OR OUT OF THE COUPLE. If… away from the couple, which is not politically correct, does not mean that is a lie. The woman is demanding in nature.

How does all this with SEXUAL FANTASIES ACTIVITY IN THE COUPLE? As good lovers, we know lead a meeting, we should be able to have a comprehensive record and know offer sexual fantasies that reach their emotions. Women by nature, it is also addicted to the emotions, in fact, the quality of a sexual meeting strongly depends on HOW WE MAKE FEEL HER, even more than the physical level.

In his emotional puzzle, fit pieces as security, passion, romance, tenderness, wantonness, lust and innocence, risk, mystery, etc.. We must look at ourselves and experience these emotions to know evoking and spreading on her, so that each game is different, giving ourselves and renewed her emotions each time.

The truth is that appear to be proposing a male model with OF MULTIPLE PERSONALITY DISORDER, because each one of these pieces that fit into their puzzle emotional are associated with different male models. This KNOW EVOKE THESE EMOTIONS IN HER WITHOUT WAIVING IN NO TIME TO OUR MALE NEEDS TO MEET HERS AND BEING WHO WE ARE. If it comes, which we feel uncomfortable with what we show, we will be doing wrong. She probably detect even before ourselves, according to translate our attitude and concrete action we are trying to pretend something that we are not … What we will be trying to satisfy too.

How can we offer new emotions and fantasies, so that she has a lover renewed and different every time, while being ourselves? The key to this, even more than men identify with different roles depending on the occasion, is prove UNPREDICTABLE. This is the fuel, to be arbitrary, random, so that they cannot apply any recurrence law to us. This feeling produces a real ADICTION for sure what the waiting each sexual meeting with us.

The feeling of gradually discovering what is going to happen, UNWRAPPING THE GIFT, the unknown is what will make her CURIOSITY grow on you, showing continued interest and CREATE FANTASIES WITH YOU. To do that, she has not to know any information or clue about what will happen in the meeting. CURIOSITY IS OUR BEST FRIEND and feel inside that there is something to DISCOVER. Things like ALWAYS proposing different plans never repeated, or place for dinner or take the last cup (unless the location that anchor positive statements is home), always avoid calling at the same time, not to put the " automatic pilot" when we are in bed with her, keep a surprise in your room, or under your clothes, make a different breakfast every time you have spent the night together, devote much time to the pre-sex, sex at different times and in various places whenever possible… are things that help create SURPRISE meeting after meeting.

A big hug.

Archangel.

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