FORWARD vs. FEAR TO LOSE

I am sure that more than one of us has any plans in mind, a dream, a SCORE or a goal. This can be something like finding girlfriend, your ideal match, buy a house, which your salary improves, find a better job, formalizing a relationship or kick a professional "BOOM". Until very recently 3 or 4 ideas were rounding my head and a few professional-level projects that never saw where to begin. It came to the point that I wanted to devote my impatience to everything at once, seeing that none of my unfinished business ended by becoming reality; I wanted to do everything but it was not materializing anything.

I suppose that more than once we have shared this feeling, you have a thousand things to do, brainstormed, projects and think that someday you will distant reality. The fact is that if we do not get a CLEAR SCALE OF PRIORITIES and a WELL DEFINED ORDER as has been happening to me until very recently, in life can realize not one of these great ideas and projects that could give you a good result for your SELFSTEEM, CONFIDENCE IN IT, WILL AND DEVELOPMENT STAFF.

WHY MANY OF THESE GOOD IDEAS NEVER ARRIVE TO BECOME REAL? Perhaps we fear, I, and I will have to fear that our projects never become a reality and that is why it did not invest TIME EQUIPMENT NECESSARY in carrying them out. The point is that if we were wrong, feel failure in the first person and this hurts, nobody likes the feeling of having spent time with a woman, a job, a project, an idea, put all your enthusiasm and effort and then for reasons that do not depend on yourself as others that our dream will be castrated.

The image of a boxer who fights for a title comes into mi mind , if you really want to achieve is not just enough to earn the opportunity to fight, you have to leave the ring and take many blows even knowing that can LOSE THE FIGHT. That is something we will not know until they get involved in the fight, if he wins or loses the last bell rings and that is what gives you VICTORY OR DEFEATS. Only one thing is sure, if you fight you know it's going to get beaten and they are going to hurt you, but if not out to get these beatings never have the chance to win the CHAMPION title.

Nobody likes to get beaten by the way, may encounter in your project topics, topics that your partner you fail, themes that if you implicas emotionally with a woman and you enamoras it, there is something that could go wrong, the commitment by fear fear that you do damage, or because your marriage is not possible to expect it. Perhaps in your next job earn more money, but you will have to work longer hours and take on new responsibilities, but if you do not agree, may not be able plantearte buying a house, formalizing a relationship, have a child, and so on. And that's why you stay as you are within your COMFORT ZONE. Not salts to fight so that you do not do damage and are still thinking that one day you will need a stroke of luck and maybe you can give out any of your projects.

The point is that we can talk about SEARCH OPPORTUNITIES, new friendships, new personal and professional relationships, you can browse resumes, can match, you can check out every Saturday to meet someone and SOMETHING HAPPENS, but if you do not lose your fear of receiving blows Nor will win the battle. It is possible that you have the wrong person and working that once you have gotten into the fight you lost, you do not know the situation ... But assume this because you know getting in the ring to fight. You had a goal and has not left you, but you have come to fight for your title, your work and your relationship. Have you won an experience that you had not before and you know for the next time where you can come beatings. No effort is without its rewards, you KNOW NOW SOMETHING THAT DID NOT KNOW BEFORE.

It seems easy to say, and in fact, unless your idea need to be a millionaire and not what you are, the role that used to the fact there will. We need to take a step and get into the ring, enter to win and be aware that ANYONE WE WILL GIVE IN NOTHING KIND. If no fights and no te llevas blows, you will not achieve your objective of winning the title. Like the woman in your life is not going to get to the door of your house, or a better job you will if you do not give anyone looking for yourself and not even a prize of the lottery, if not shopping the ticket, THERE IS A COST OF OPPORTUNITY.

Thanks a lot por the page, the Spirit of Modern Male flood your souls and guide you on the right track.

Archangel.
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